鲁女士是新疆乌鲁木齐某学校的一年级学生家长。这几天,她的心情时起时落。自从今年秋季孩子上了小学一年级,她每天都要盯着班级微信群看十几遍,生怕漏掉班主任老师发来的信息。过去很少用微信的她,如今每天不得不“沉迷”于手机。“我每天都要关注孩子在学校的表现,看看老师都是咋评价我孩子的。”鲁女士说,“孩子被点名批评,还是被表扬,牵动着我和孩子父亲的心。”有学者认为,这种现象会给家长和孩子带来精神压力,不但达不到让家 Ms. Lu is a first-year student’s parents in a school in Urumqi, Xinjiang. These days, her mood from time to time. Since the first grade of elementary school in this autumn, her children stare at the WeChat group in the classroom a dozen times a day for fear of missing the information sent by the class teacher. In the past she seldom used WeChat, and she now has to “Indulge” every day in her cell phone. “Every day I pay attention to the child’s performance in school, see the teacher is ye evaluation my child. ” Miss Lu said “The child was named criticism, or be praised, affecting my father and my child’s heart. ”Some scholars believe that this phenomenon will bring mental stress to parents and children, not only failed to let home