如果你是一位有着十三四岁女儿的母亲,我想你一定会关心怎样使女儿健康地过好青春第一关。我是一个早已过了不惑之年的中年知识分子,是两个女儿的母亲。三年前,也就是大女儿十四岁时,家里发生了一场不大不小的风波。我的大女儿断奶后就一直由外婆带养,当她重新和我们夫妇生活在一起时,已经七岁了。她在家总不像小女儿那么活泼,跟我们那么亲热。但因成绩尚可,平时也很听话,所以,她那内向的性格并没有引起我们特别的注 If you are a mother with a 13-year-old daughter, I think you will be concerned about how to make her daughter a healthy first-degree pass. I am a middle-aged intellectual who has already passed her age, and is the mother of two daughters. Three years ago, when her eldest daughter was fourteen years old, an upsurge occurred in her family. My eldest daughter, after being weaned, has been brought up by her grandmother, who was already seven years old when she resumed living with our couple. She is not as lively as her daughter at home, so affectionate as we are. However, due to the good grades, usually very obedient, so her introverted character did not cause our special note