在人们的印象中,西方人结婚好像就是在教堂举办下仪式而已,实则不然……和自己心爱的人走进婚姻的殿堂是每个人的心愿。在中国,从古至今嫁娶可谓是每个家庭的头等大事。从挑选良辰吉日、婚礼礼服,到宴请宾客,筹备典礼仪式,每一个细节都倾注着新人以及全家人的欣喜和祝福。从上个世纪八十年代开始,随着改革开放,新人们追求着“洋范儿”穿起了白色的婚纱和西装,开始了对西方婚礼形式的向往。因为笔者生活在德国,我可以以亲身经历,聊聊德国 In the people’s minds, westerners marry seem to be held in the church ceremonies only, but otherwise not ... ... and his beloved people into the hall of marriage is everyone’s wish. In China, marriage has been a top priority for every family since ancient times. From the selection of the auspicious day, the wedding dress, to the dinner guests, preparation ceremony, every detail is devoted new and the family’s joy and blessings. Since the 1980s, with the reform and opening up, the new people have pursued the “Western Fan children,” dressed in white wedding dresses and suits, and began to yearn for Western wedding forms. Because I live in Germany, I can experience, talk about Germany