现如今流行一个词——拼爹。有人赞成,有人反对。赞成的人认为,父母需要给孩子创造一个良好的成长环境和更多的发展机会,才有利于孩子的成才;反对者则认为,孩子需要通过自身的努力和奋斗去打拼,自己去开拓自己的人生。在我看来,爹是要拼的,但拼的不是收八、成就和地位等物质层面的东西,而主要是父亲的观念、心态和时间等方面。 Now a popular word - fight father. Some people are in favor of it, others object. Pro-people believe that parents need to give their children to create a good environment for growth and more opportunities for development, is conducive to the children’s talent; opponents believe that children need to work hard through their own efforts and to open up their own life. In my opinion, the father wants to fight, but the fight is not to accept the material level of eight, achievement and status, but mainly the father’s concept, mentality and time.