问:我的儿子走进了中学的校门,最近我发现他的成绩明显退步,而且情绪不稳。几天前在他的抽屉中竟然发现一本黄色画刊,便马上对他痛责一番,但我又觉得这种处理未必恰当。孩子大了,我该怎样处理这种事情? 答:想必我们都还未忘记,在自己成长过程中也曾有过一段时期,对“性”充满了好奇和幻想,这正是您孩子所处的青春期阶段。对孩子来说,关心性过程是身心发展的正常现象,无须给予严 Q: My son walked into the middle school. Recently, I found him obviously regressing and feeling unstable. A few days ago, he found a yellow print in his drawer, and he was immediately blamed on him, but I do not think this treatment may be appropriate. How can I handle this kind of thing when the child is big? A: Presumably we have not yet forgotten. There have also been periods during our own growth, full of curiosity and illusion about “sex,” which is where your child lives. Adolescent stage. For children, the process of caring is a normal phenomenon of physical and mental development, without giving strict