男性与女性之间的交际是跨文化交际。性别话语差异导致诠释错误和交际失误,进而形成话语冲突。用性别话语诠释框架解析小说《新结婚时代》中的异性话语冲突,得出结论:男性和女性之间冲突频发的一个重要原因是性别话语诠释框架的差异,而其深层根源是两性社会地位差异。因此,应该促进性别平等,消除性别话语诠释框架的差异,形成理解、包容的话语方式,营造平等、融合的话语气氛。 Communication between men and women is cross-cultural communication. Differences in gender discourse lead to mistakes in interpretations and communicative errors, which lead to discourse conflicts. Analyze the heterosexual discourse conflict in the novel “New Marriage Era” with the framework of the discourse of the gender discourse and conclude that one of the major causes of the frequent conflicts between men and women is the difference in the framework of the discourse of gender discourse, and its underlying cause is the gender-social status difference. Therefore, we should promote gender equality, eliminate differences in the framework of interpretation of gender discourse, form an understandable and inclusive discourse, and create an atmosphere of equality and integration of discourse.