要想侃自己有风度。第一要有“你自己”。有人太注意迎合别人，而忽略了自己的主见和个性，使他成为毫无特色，毫无的致的人，在风度上也会失败。生活格调的高雅与低俗之间，最大的分别是，能不能看到物质享用以外的美好世界。气质之美与其说是来自内心的修养，不如说它是来自一? To show off their own style. The first to have “your own.” Someone who pays too much attention to cater to others and neglects his own opinions and personalities makes him a characterless person with no character and will fail gracefully. The difference between elegance and vulgarity of life style is whether we can see the beautiful world beyond material enjoyment. The beauty of temperament is not so much from the heart of self-cultivation, it is better to say that it is from one?