傣族青年的恋爱婚姻一般是比较自由的。每当春节时举行的“丢包”活动，以及农闲季节，甚至于佛事活动期间，都是他们谈情说爱的大好时机。家闲时姑娘们的纺布机旁总会跑来一些小伙子挑逗说笑。如果话不投机，姑娘就会婉拒，或使纺车发出噼里啪啦的声音，表示逐客。如果姑娘有 Dai youth love marriage is generally more free. Whenever Spring Festival is held, the “lost packet” activities, as well as the slack season, and even Buddhist activities, are great opportunities for them to talk about love. At home when the girls are running around the machine, some young lad always teasing laughter. If you do not speculate, the girl will decline, or make the spinning wheel crackling sound, said by the passenger. If the girl is there