在平常可以看到这样的现象,有些母亲经常在大庭广众之下当着孩子的面夸奖他聪明能干,学习成绩好,以为这样可以增强孩子的自信心。一些心理学家认为,聪明的孩子不应该因他们的智力和学习成绩而总是得到夸奖,因为这样做会使他们不能承受失败的打击。美国最近的研究表明,试图通过夸奖孩子聪明增强孩子的自信可能事与愿违。 In the usual can see such a phenomenon, some mothers often in the crowd under the face of children praise him smart and capable, good academic performance, thinking it can enhance the child’s self-confidence. Some psychologists believe that bright children should not always be praised for their intelligence and academic achievement, as doing so will make them unbearable failures. Recent research in the United States has shown that trying to increase children’s self-esteem by boosting children’s intelligence may be counterproductive.