家长对孩子的许诺,应当言而有信,行而有果,同时也必须讲究艺术,灵活处理,根据不同的具体情况,可采用以下几种方法。 一、对有把握的事可采取定性的许诺 如果家长对事情很了解,估计对孩子许下的诺言有把握实现,那么就干脆把话说“死”。这种许诺能给孩子留下不容置疑的印象,给孩子吃下一颗“定心丸”,孩子学习,做事也就更有劲头。 Parents should give their children promises, words and deeds, but the result line, but also must pay attention to the arts, flexible processing, depending on the circumstances, can use the following methods. First, the promise of certainty can be taken if there is a good understanding of the matter, it is estimated that the promises promised by children will be realized, then simply say “dead.” This promise can give the child an unforgiving impression, give the child a “reassurance pill,” and learn to do things more energetically.