教育学家说,与孩子成为朋友是教育孩子的前提。以下几法有助于实现这个目标。改变说话的声调人在激动时时候,说话声调特别高,心跳加快,神经紧绷,甚至面红耳赤,无法调节心跳和呼吸。小孩子也不例外。小孩子生气时,往往不知道怎样处理自已的悄绪,所议采取大吼大叫,反抗激辩的方式,企图掩饰过失。这时候,大人适时地降低声调,用温和的语气回答或商量,往往能提醒他,使他有所收敛。 Educators say making friends with children is a prerequisite for educating their children. The following methods will help achieve this goal. Change the tone of speech When people are excited, especially high tone of voice, rapid heartbeat, nervous tension, and even flushed, unable to regulate heartbeat and breathing. Children are no exception. When children are angry, they often do not know how to deal with their own quiet quietness. The proposals are screaming and defying ways to cover up their mistakes. At this time, adults in a timely manner to reduce the tone, with mild tone to answer or discuss, often reminded him to make him somewhat convergent.