我55岁时老伴儿病逝,60岁再婚时,女儿对我说,妈妈既然和李叔再婚了,就要真心实意地跟人家过日子,像当年对待我爸那样对待李叔。我把女儿的嘱咐记心上,对老李尊重、关怀、谅解、体贴,事实证明这是正确的。我和老李在性格和生活习惯上有所不同,有时为一些小事也会争得面红耳赤,最后我都主动做自我批评。我发现当我做自我批评后,老李也会做自我批评,我们就容易 My 55-year-old wife died of childhood, 60-year-old remarried, the daughter told me that since her mother and Li Shu remarried, we must sincerely live with others, like treating my father that year treated Uncle Lee. I put my daughter’s mind in mind, respect, caring, understanding, considerate, it turns out to be correct. I and Lao Li in the character and lifestyle differences, and sometimes for some trivial things will get red-hot, and finally I take the initiative to do self-criticism. I found that when I do self-criticism, Lao Lee will do self-criticism, we will be easy