惩罚是把双刃剑,是一种危险的、高难度的教育技巧。惩罚不等于体罚,更不是伤害,不是心理虐待、歧视,让你觉得难堪,打击你的自信心。孩子犯错误的时候,恰恰是教育的良机,因为内疚和不安会使他急于求助,而此时明白的道理可能使他刻骨铭心。家长包办得越多,孩子的能力越差。孩子在体验中长大,不是在说教中长大。 Punishment is double-edged sword is a dangerous, difficult educational skills. Penalties are not equal to corporal punishment, but not hurt, not psychological abuse, discrimination, make you feel embarrassed, blow your self-confidence. When children make mistakes, it is precisely an opportunity for education, because guilt and anxiety will make him anxious to turn to help, but at this time understand the truth may make him unforgettable. The more parents are arranged, the worse the child’s ability. Children grow up in experience, not in preaching to grow up.