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美国作家Sally Clarkson的《Mission of Motherhood》一书中这样说,儿女原本是上帝在婚姻中的祝福和一种托管,而现今,一旦孩子只是为满足父母情感需求,或只是由于性行为导致的常有的麻烦的副产品,那么,在教养这项实际又艰难的工作中,父母就会推卸责任,孩子的价值观培养、智力开发、沟通和情绪调节等就会缺乏,孩子的安全感和价值感也就随之缺失。这是我所读过并经常参考的有关母性的最好的书之一。在我逆大众通行教子观念的潮流而动的亲身经历中,它给了我宝贵的帮助。当时的通行观念认为,我选择陪孩子呆在家里度过他们儿童时期的前几年,纯粹是浪费我在麻省理工学院所受的教育。
As the American writer Sally Clarkson said in his book, “Mission of Motherhood,” children were originally blessings and a kind of custody of God in marriage. Nowadays, once a child is only satisfied with his parents’ emotional needs or simply because of sexual activities Some of the troublesome by-products, then, in the actual hard work of education, parents will shirk its responsibility, the children’s values, intellectual development, communication and emotional regulation will be lacking, the child’s sense of security and value It is missing. This is one of the best books on motherhood that I have read and often referred to. It gave me precious help in my personal experience of moving against the trend of the popular godfather. The popular belief at the time was that I had only had to waste my education at Massachusetts Institute of Technology when I chose to stay with my children at home to spend their childhood.