许多三四岁的孩子和别人相处时常显得非常小气,“自私”。比如,宁宁的小表哥来了,看见桌子上摆着一把新颖的小吉他,就走过去拿起来玩,谁知他刚一拨动琴弦,就被正在一旁玩游戏机的宁宁发现了。宁宁急忙跑上去,把小吉他紧紧地拿在自己的手里,一脸严肃地看着小表哥郑重地说:“这是我的。”宁宁的妈妈看到儿子如此表现,忍不住在一旁“揭发”说“真奇怪!你不是一直不喜欢玩儿这个吉他吗?昨天你还对它不理不睬的,怎么现在倒攥住不放了呢?”妈妈说的完全是事实可是现在不管妈妈怎么说,在小表哥面前,宁宁就是不肯松手。类似这样的事情,在三四岁孩子的身上时有发生:有时孩子明明已经把玩具送给了别人,却很快又要了回来;吃东西时也不管别人,都按自己的喜好来挑选,更不愿意和别人分享;玩游戏和玩具之前,一些孩子嘴上也能表示想和小朋友一起玩,要和小伙伴友好相处可到了玩的时候,争抢起玩具来谁也不让谁,更谈不上合作啦。他们的举动屡屡让爸爸妈妈们感到 Many three or four-year-old children get along with others often seem very stingy, “selfish ”. For example, Ning Ning’s little cousin came and saw a novel little guitar on the table. He walked up and picked it up for play. Who knows he just struck the strings, he was being playing video games. Found. Ning Ning hurried to go up, the little guitar tightly in his own hand, a look of serious look at the small cousin solemnly said: “This is mine.” Ningning mother saw his son so , Can not help but be on the side “expose ” said “really strange! You do not always do not like to play this guitar? Yesterday you ignore it, how now? ”Mom said completely, but now regardless of how the mother said that in front of a small cousin, Ningning is not willing to let go. Things like this happen from three to four-year-olds: sometimes the child has given the toy apparently to someone else, but is coming back soon. When eating, regardless of others, they choose according to their own preferences, More do not want to share with others; before playing games and toys, some children can also express their desire to play with children, to be friends with small partners to play when competing for toys who do not let who, No cooperation! Their actions often make dad and mom feel