心理学家发现,一个人的聪明才智所包含的条件,远远超过传统的智商测验以及大学的入学考试所包含的内容,其中情绪商数就很可能是左右一个人未来成败的一项关键才智,它是一种了解自己以及别人情绪的能力。美国西雅图华盛顿大学的心理学家约翰·嘉特曼,在最近出版的《如何培养情绪上高智力的孩子》一书中指出,培养孩子在情绪上的高智力才应该是父母培育孩子的真正重点。嘉特曼教授认 Psychologists have found that a person’s ingenuity contains conditions that go far beyond traditional IQ tests and university entrance exams, where emotional quotient is likely to be a key intelligence about the future success or failure of a person It is an ability to understand one’s own emotions as well as others. John Gatterman, a psychologist at the University of Washington in Seattle, in the recently published book How to Develop Emotional Intelligence Children, points out that developing children’s high emotional intelligence should be the real focus of parenting . Professor Gateman admits