亲密关系(包括爱情),有个定义特别有趣:它是展现脆弱的能力,它需要彼此冒险坦陈最深的感觉、渴望和思想。一对相爱的人,在家议论人与事,不幸直播放出,估计很难活下去。在最信任的人面前,你毫不防备,也不会精心准备,极端的观点,有漏洞的话语,可能比比皆是。换个角度想,如果在恋爱中,你充满了防备,每讲一句话,都得想:这句话传出去,会怎样呢?那可以明确,你没有爱。有人跟你说话面面俱到,像竞选演说一样,那说明他(她)并不爱你, Intimacy (including love) is a particularly interesting definition: it is the ability to exhibit fragility, which requires the adventures of the deepest feelings, desires, and thoughts. A pair of people who love to talk about people and things at home, unlucky broadcast live, it is estimated hard to survive. In the face of the most trusted people, you are unprepared, unprepared, extremist, and looser, and may abound. Another point of view, if in love, you are full of preparedness, every sentence, have to think: This sentence came out, what will happen? That can be clear, you do not have love. When someone speaks to you exhaustively, like a campaign speech, that means he or she does not love you,