“一生中最浪漫的事/就是和你一起慢慢变老/成为一道持久的风景/绚丽着诗意的黄昏”这是我在“珍珠婚”庆典仪式上,即兴写给老伴儿的一首诗。30多年的岁月,很多记忆都随着时间的大潮远去了,而有关她的三样东西却让我终生难忘。一是她的手。自从结婚后,老伴儿的手便逐渐由细嫩变得粗糙。工薪阶层,日子拮据。每天天刚蒙蒙亮,我俩就得爬起来,割草、剜菜、剁菜、铡草、煮猪食,然后,才匆匆忙忙骑上车子去上班。晚上 “The most romantic thing in life / is to grow old with you / become a lasting scenery / beautiful poetic evening ” This is my “Pearl Wedding ” ceremony, impromptu write to his wife A poem. More than 30 years of age, a lot of memories are gone with the tide of time, and the three things about her made me forever unforgettable. One is her hand. Since marrying, his wife’s hand gradually becomes delicate from the rough. Working-class, day constraints. Every day has just dawn, we had to get up, mowing, vegetables, chopped vegetables, pot grass, boiled pig food, and then rushed to the car in a hurry to go to work. at night