谈恋爱就是调兵遣将。双方各出猛将一名,一男一女,第一步通名报姓,虚晃两招;接着你来我往,逐步蚕食对方地盘;继而讨价还价,唇枪舌剑。胜利者得意洋洋,掌握大权,失败者只能鞍前马后,奔走效劳了。除这一男一女两员大将之外,还有各路先锋(媒人)、参谋长(亲朋好友)、元帅(双方父母)为之打探情况、出谋划策。 Fall in love is the dispatch of troops. The two sides each a fierce generals, a man and a woman, the first step in the name of the newspaper surname, feint two strokes; Then you come to me, and gradually erode each other’s sites; and then bargain, lips. The triumphant triumphant, master the power, the loser can only saddle before the horse, run away service. In addition to this male and female generals, there are Pioneer (matchmaker), chief of staff (friends and relatives), Marshal (both parents) to explore the situation, advice.