亲人意外去世,活着的我们既自责又相互指责。1莉莉的婆婆在3年前意外去世。那天晚上,她丈夫陪着妈妈聊天,之后回到自己的房间休息,谁知道第二天一觉醒来,妈妈已去世。对于他来说,这是一个巨大的打击。虽然时间已经过去3年,他的兄弟姐妹都走出了这一阴影,但他仍然深陷其中而不能自拔。现在,他经常失眠。莉莉说,很多个晚上,她凌晨两三时醒来, In the accidental death of a loved one, we live both in self-blame and blame. 1 Lily’s mother-in-law died unexpectedly 3 years ago. That night, her husband chatted with her mom, then returned to her room to rest, who knows wake up the next day, the mother has died. For him, this is a huge blow. Although three years have passed, his siblings have come out of the shadow, but he is still stuck in it and can not extricate themselves. Now, he often insomnia. Lily said many nights, she woke up at about two or three in the morning,