孩子放学回家,走到你跟前,轻轻对你说:“今天,我挨老师批评了……”。你该怎样?你应该高兴。你的孩子信任你,相信你能理解他的心境,能看到他的识辨力和自信心,所以愿意把这种事情告诉你。孩子会从你欣喜的倾听、和蔼的表情、赞许的目光里得到慰藉.受到鼓励,从而产生肯定的心理体验:我做对了。于是进一步将尚未充分显露的感受表达出 Children come home from school, come to you, gently said to you: “Today, I was the teacher criticized the ... ”. How are you? You should be happy. Your child trusts you, I believe you can understand his state of mind, can see his resolution and self-confidence, so I would like to tell you such a thing. The child will be comforted by your delightful listening, gentle expression, and commendable gaze. Encouraged to produce a positive psychological experience: I’m right. So further not yet fully exposed feelings expressed