吕娅在咨询的前一天刚刚过完30岁生日。不过,当她坐在我面前的时候,精致的脸上非但没有一点30岁女人该有的成熟和自信,反而写满了无奈和焦虑。“别人都说三十而立,看看我自己,没有家庭,没有男朋友,事业上也是一事无成。”吕娅一上来就倒了不少的苦水。研究生毕业的吕娅,学的是较热门的机电一体化,能说一口流利的英 Luya had just finished her 30th birthday the day before the consultation. However, when she sat in front of me, delicate face not only not a little 30-year-old woman should be mature and confident, but filled with helplessness and anxiety. “Everyone else said thirty stand, look at myself, no family, no boyfriend, career is nothing. ” Lu Ya poured down a lot of suffering. Lu Ya graduated from graduate school, learning is the more popular mechanical and electrical integration, can speak fluent English