中国的父母常常以听话不听话，作为衡量孩子好坏的一个主要标准。却全然不考虑自己的话是否应该听。父母身边的乖乖儿，固然带起来比较轻松，但长期如此，就会丧失个性，失去创造力。特别是个性随顺的孩子，一味地要求他听话，更会产生负面的影响。与畏首畏尾的孩子相比，有点 Chinese parents often disobedient as obedience, as a measure of the quality of their children a major criterion. But do not consider whether they should listen to it. Beloved around parents, although more easy to bring together, but in the long run, it will lose its personality, loss of creativity. In particular, follow the personality of children, blindly asking him obedient, but will have a negative impact. Compared with the timid child, a little bit