人都会老,这是人自己无法左右的自然规律。当面对离休、退休这一关口时,过得好的老年人,生活依旧有趣味,过得不好的老年人,就会产生孤独感和自卑感。长久的孤独,尤其是老年丧偶者,甚至会产生变态心理,常被戏称为“老小孩”。所以,退下来的老年朋友都应学会随遇而安,学会知足常乐。如此方能心理健康,晚年生活愉快幸福。老年人心理比较脆弱,记忆力与感知功能衰退,降低了老年人的判断力、控制力及反应灵敏性,也降低了他们对社会的适应能力。这些都可使老年人在性格上变得古怪,例如嫉妒、任性、固执、爱猜忌、好发牢骚及不愿接受新鲜事物,形成所谓的抑郁型、冲动型或猜疑型等类性格。生理上的衰老又使老年人的神经、肌肉功能减弱,从而动作 People will be old, which is a natural law that can not be controlled by oneself. When faced with retirement, retirement at this juncture, the well-being of the elderly, life is still interesting, bad elderly people, will have a sense of loneliness and inferiority. Long-term loneliness, especially elderly widows, may even produce abnormal psychology, often dubbed “old kid.” Therefore, the retirement of elderly friends should learn the best of luck, learn to be content. Only in this way mental health, happy life happy old age. The elderly are more vulnerable and their memory and perception deteriorate, reducing their sense of control, control and responsiveness, as well as their ability to adapt to society. All of these can make older people become eccentric in character, such as envy, self-willedness, stubbornness, love of suspicion, whining and reluctance to accept new things, and forming so-called depression, impulsive or suspicious types of personality. Physiological aging in turn make the elderly nerves, muscle weakness, and thus action