许多父母亲抱怨说,如今的孩子越来越难教育了。而许多少男少女也常凑在一起愤愤不平地说,如今的父母越来越烦人了。也许正由于这种相互排斥的心理,造成了亲子之间深深的隔阂。据上海一项抽样调查表明,当中学生遇到麻烦的时候,想告诉父母和老师的只有1%! Many parents complain that children today are getting harder to educate. And many boys and girls often get together indignantly to say that today’s parents are getting annoying. Perhaps because of this mutual exclusion psychology, resulting in a deep gap between parents and children. According to a sample survey conducted in Shanghai, when middle school students are in trouble, they want to tell their parents and teachers only 1%!