现实生活中,家长们大都会面临这样的问题:可爱顺从的孩子逐渐变得执拗起来,不太听话了;有时你让他向东,他偏向西,带有一种故意。“发犟劲”就是心理学讲的逆反心理。一般在儿童10——15岁比较明显,到了这个年龄,“忽然”事事都要和你对着干了,也就是说“发犟劲”。这个年龄段是儿童发展过程中的一个反抗期,过了这个反抗期,就会好的。对待逆反心理有许多方法,关键在于量体裁衣,一把钥 In real life, most parents face the problem that adorable obedient children gradually become stubborn and disobedient. Sometimes you let him go eastward and he tends to the west with a deliberate intention. “Fat 犟 Jin” is the psychology of the rebellious. Generally in children 10 - 15 years old is more obvious, to this age, “all of a sudden all things must be done with you, that is to say,” made a strong. " This age group is a period of resistance during the development of children. After this period of resistance, it will be fine. There are many ways to treat reverse psychology, the key lies in tailoring, a key