在现代家庭中,独生子女的比例居多,是家里的独苗,他们在家里集万千宠爱于一身,爷爷奶奶、外公外婆会一手包办所有的事。不得不说,溺爱、包办已经侵蚀了我们的家长,阻挠了太多孩子的健康成长。面对着这样的孩子,我不禁感叹:父母们一边抱怨长大了的孩子不知道感恩,不懂事,不会自理,不知道孝顺父母,一边又在继续任劳任怨地为他们做事,照顾他们的饮食起居。如此这般,只会让孩子自理能力越来越差。作为一 In the modern family, the only child is the majority, the only child in the family. They gather thousands of spoils in the family. Grandparents, grandparents and grandparents will do everything in one go. Have to say, spoiled, arranged has eroded our parents, blocking the healthy growth of too many children. In the face of such a child, I can not help but sigh: Parents complain about the grown-up children do not know gratitude, ignorance, self-care, do not know filial piety, while they continue to work hard to work for them to take care of their diet Living. So, it will only make the child self-care ability is getting worse. As one