HOW TO GET HIM TO TAKE YOUR ADVICE
　　
　　Try these tips to put your man on the right path without pushing him over the edge.
　　Perfect your pose. Body lingo can speak louder than words, so watch your stance, Hovering over him communicates superiority. Instead, sit next to him and convey warmth with affectionate gestures.
　　Be his biggest fan. Hearing advice makes men feel like they don抰 measure up, but you won抰 make him feel stupid if you praise him while giving him guidance. For instance, if he抯 stressed about giving a presentation, remind him how well he handles crowds before putting in your two cents.
　　Shroud your suggestions. If you phrase your comments as questions, he抣l think he figures out the answer. A man will be more receptive to an inquiry because it doesn抰 seem pushing. “Doesn抰 it seem like you抳e been putting in tons of overtime?” instead of “Your boss is taking advantage of you.”
　　(Quoted from Glamour Magazine March 2003)
　　
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　　如何使他能够接受您的意见
　　
　　试一下这些小技巧，让您的男朋友不要出轨，却又没有让他失去体面(push sb over the edge).
　　完美您的姿态。体态术语（lingo）比语言更明显，所以请注意您的仪态（stance）。不应以居高临下的姿势(hovering over)来显示您的优越感（superiority）。相反，您应坐在他的旁边，用您富有爱心的(affectionate)手势表现出（convey）您的温柔。
　　成为他的最佳支持者。倾听别人的建议会使男性觉得他们比别人差（measure up）,但如果您在指点的同时加以赞扬（praise）他的话，您就不会使他觉得自己很愚蠢。例如，假如他在公众发言之前焦虑紧张时，提醒（remind）他是在处理公众方面十分良好，然后再发表自己的意见(putting in your two cents)。
　　掩盖(Shroud)您的建议。如果您将您的评论换成问句，他会认为他可以自己琢磨(figure out)出答案来。男性比较能够接受询问的方式，那样不会有被逼迫感（pushy）。“您不觉得您已经加了太多班了吗？”而不要说“您老板在占您便宜！”