以德抱怨,是我们常听到的一句话,人们通常理解的意思是:别人欺负你了,你要忍,别人来欺负你,你反而应该对他更好,要用你的爱心去感化他,用你的胸怀去感动他。这就让人感觉有点肃然了。想想看,如果我一巴掌呼过去,那个被打的人还笑着说打得好啊,你越打我我就要对你越好。遇到这种情况我也会感动到傻眼,多伟大的情操啊! Complaining with Germany is a sentence we often hear. What people usually understand means: others bully you, you have to forbear, others have come to bully you, but you should instead treat him better, and use your love to influence him Use your mind to touch him. This makes people feel a bit awkward. Think about it, if I slap in the past, the beaten person also laughed and said playing well, the more you hit me I will be better for you. Encounter this situation I will be touched to dumbfounded, how great sentiment ah!