所有的孩子都爱玩,而我的儿子尤其爱玩,玩起来可以忘掉一切,似乎游戏成了他赖以生存的整个世界。对于这种状况,我的妻子十分担心,觉得儿子玩得太野了,一旦要让他安静下来,学点什么,将很困难。尤其是在她看到别人家的孩子能认一点字,识一点数,算一点题的时候,心中更是焦急。我则认为,对幼儿来说,最好的学习方式就是游戏,而最好的学习环境就是大自然和社会。幼儿到了三四岁,已经有了基本的活动能力,人类生活中那些最基本的动作方式,如站、走、跑、跳、推、拉、扔、拿,以至于攀登、超越小障碍等,他都已经学会了。此时,也已经有了最基本的语言交际能力。有些研究认为,3—4岁的幼儿常用的词汇已有1730个,不仅会说简单句,而且还会说少量的复合句,可以基本上表达自己的愿望, All children love to play, and my son especially loves to play and can forget everything. It seems that the game has become the whole world in which he lives. For this situation, my wife is very worried about his son that playing too wild, and to let him calm down, learn something, it will be very difficult. Especially in her children to see others can recognize a little word, know a few points, when a little problem, the heart is even more anxious. I think that for young children, the best way to learn is the game, and the best learning environment is nature and society. Toddlers have reached the age of three or four and already have the basic ability to act. The most basic modes of action in human life, such as standing, walking, running, jumping, pushing, pulling, throwing and holding, so as to climb and surpass small obstacles, He has learned it. At this point, also have the most basic language communication skills. Some studies suggest that there are 1,730 commonly used words for children aged 3-4 years old, not only simple sentences, but also a small number of compound sentences, which can basically express their wishes,