问:一直以来,在我们家里,任何好吃的东西我妻子总是先让孩子吃,最好的先给他,最少的只让他吃,久而久之,孩子到了别人的家也不管三七二十一,自己先吃了。我对妻子说,这样不好,应该有东西大家一起吃。但妻子却说我当爸爸的也跟儿子争吃,给孩子一个坏印象,父母从小让他,能让他体会到谦让的乐趣。我母亲也说我不对,爱护弱小是我们中国的传统美德,人家车上也写着小孩优先嘛!弄得我也不知自己是不是想错了。你能给我们评评理吗? Q: It has always been in my family, any good thing my wife always let the children eat, the best to give him at least only let him eat, as time passes, children to someone else’s house regardless of thirty-seven twenty First, I ate first. I said to my wife, this is not good, we should have something to eat together. However, my wife said that when I was dad and my son competed to give the child a bad impression, his parents let him make him feel humility. My mother also said that I am not right, care for the weak is our traditional Chinese virtues, people are also written in the car child priority thing! Confused I do not know if I was wrong. Can you comment on us?