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有了孩子,我们订阅贵刊,接受贵刊的指导,主张孩子全面发展,反对给孩子过早定向。可是,在一段时间内,顾盼左邻右舍,有的不惜重金为孩子买了钢琴,有的不辞劳苦送孩子去学英语,有的想方设法邀请名流指导孩子习书作画……这种“早育神童”的冲击波曾一度困扰着我们。去年,经过历时三个月之久的竞赛,孩子张乐的名字被列入江苏省“十佳宝宝”之列,这又坚定了我们原先的教子指导思想。我们相信,教子成长,关键在于培养孩子不懈的进取心和创造意识。孩子将来干什么,父母虽抱有美好的希冀,但不能硬性规定。随着孩子年龄的增长,视野的开拓和知识面的不断扩大,加之客观环境的有效影响,孩子完全能选择应走的道路。何况幼儿的生理特点是容易疲劳,心理特点是兴奋点易转移,过早
With the children, we subscribe to your magazine, accept the guidance of your magazine, advocate the full development of children, against the children premature orientation. However, for some time, look forward to neighbors, some spared no expense to buy a piano for their children, and some unscrupulous children to learn English, and some find ways to invite celebrities to guide children learn book painting ...... This “early child prodigy ”The shock wave once bothered us. Last year, after a three month long contest, the name of the child Zhang Le was included in the “Top Ten Baby” in Jiangsu Province, which further strengthened our original guiding principle of the godson. We believe that the key to the growth of the godson is to cultivate children’s tireless enterprising spirit and create awareness. What children do in the future, although parents have good hope, but not rigidly regulated. With the growth of children’s age, development of vision and continuous expansion of knowledge, coupled with the effective impact of the objective environment, children can fully choose the road to go. Moreover, the physical characteristics of young children is easy to fatigue, psychological characteristics are easy to transfer excitement, premature