人际关系,复杂莫过于亲人之间。路人无关你的痛痒,同事可以仅限于工作往来,朋友如果貌合神离,可以潇洒地转身离开。但亲人不行,尤其是父母,从某种意义上来说,他们是你一生都要背负的“十字架”。不过,当父母居功自傲并对子女颐指气使时,这个“十字架”会越来越重,结果不仅父母自己不幸福,还会将子女拖入一场泥潭。不爱孩子的父母极少,所谓“可怜天下父母心”嘛。不过,如果我们把“父母心”抽丝剥茧剥下来,或许会看到一些很陌生甚至是很坚硬的东西。 Interpersonal relationships, more complicated than their loved ones. Pedestrians have nothing to do with your itch, colleagues can be limited to work contacts, friends, if you look together, you can gracefully turned and left. However, not family members, especially parents, in a sense, they are all your life to bear the “cross.” However, when parents are proud of themselves and their children, the Cross is getting heavier and heavier. As a result, not only are parents unhappy, they are dragging their children into a quagmire. Few parents do not love children, the so-called “poor world parents ” Well. However, if we peel off the “parental heart”, we may see something strange and even very hard.