大伟:您好!我有个手残的儿子,今年15岁了,从小聪明活泼,我对他的期望很高,从小就让他学习乐器和英语,就是离我的要求差得太远。我对他的学习抓得很紧,还留了家庭作业。但是最近他开始逃避这些了,甚至去偷一些根本不值钱也并不需要的东西,成绩下降不说,品质也有了问题。帮帮我好 Dawei: Hello! I have a hand-handicapped son, I am 15 years old. I was an intelligent and lively childhood. I had high expectations for him. From an early age, I learned how to learn musical instruments and English. It was too far from my request. I took a very tight grip on his studies and left homework. But lately he started to evade this and even stole something that was not worth anything at all. The drop in grade did not say anything, and the quality was problematic. Help me