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真爱儿女,才能教好儿女,而真爱是相对于错爱和溺爱而言的。当下,多数父母为儿女倾注了全部的精力、心血和财物,不是错爱就是溺爱,教育方向、教育效果越来越显现出其弊端,真爱儿女、教好儿女的标准不单是儿女考上名牌大学、挣到大钱、做了大官,而应该是心有父母、恪尽孝悌;心有他人、器量广大;心底柔软、友爱和善;心有责任、吃苦耐劳;心有底线,尽分守法。当下社会上一片补课声、分数声、名校声,家长们付出的时间、投入的精力、花费的金钱、陪出的笑脸最多,效果却“如人饮水,冷暖自知”了。真爱儿女、教好儿女,首先是心量要大。因为教好儿女不单
True love of children, can teach children, and true love is relative to the wrong and spoiled words. At present, most parents devoted all their energy, hard work and property to their children, whether they are wrong or love, education, and education more and more show its drawbacks. The standards of true love and teaching of children are not only children’s entrance into prestigious universities, Earn a lot of money, made a high official, but should be the heart and parents, abide by filial piety; heart of others, the vast amount of equipment; soft heart, kindness and love; heart responsibility, hard-working; At present, there is a patchwork of voices, scores, prestigious schools, the time parents spend, the energy they spend, the money they spend, and the smiling faces that accompany them. True love of children, teaching children, first of all, the mind is bigger. Because teaching children is not the only one