有人说,婚姻就是一个接一个的离婚情绪串联而成的。结了婚的人,十之八九起过这样的念头。吵闹的时候它会脱口而出,即便是平静的时候,也可能饱含这种情绪。尤其是女人,每当对现实的婚姻失望了、不满了,就会向往离婚,认为最有可能改变生活的就是逃离婚姻。所幸,真正将离婚情绪转化成行动之前,十之八九的人们还是能深思熟虑的。用婚姻家庭心理学的话来说, Some people say that marriage is a succession of divorces formed in tandem. Married people, such a thought had never been seen before. It will blurt out when it’s noisy, and it may be full of emotion even when it’s calm. Especially women, who are disappointed with the reality of marriage, will yearn for divorce and think that the most likely life change is to flee from marriage. Fortunately, people who are nine in ten people can actually think well before they actually turn divorce into action. In the words of marriage and family psychology,