相敬如宾一词是褒义的,但是用在夫妻关系上就不那么美妙了,因为它远离了“亲密”。亲密关系意味着夫妻双方是敞开心扉的,彼此可以分享脆弱,而最重要的是能量可以自由交换。而相敬如宾的夫妻,界限分明,自我封闭,缺乏深度交流与互动。这样的夫妻所营造的家庭,即使再富有也只是死水一潭。一个家庭就好似一个能量交换站,夫妻之间、父母与孩子之间因能量的有 It is commendable to be respectful, but less fantastic for the purpose of conjugal relations because it is far from being intimate. Intimacy means that the couple is open to the heart, sharing the weakness with each other and above all, the energy is freely exchanged. And respectable couple, clear-cut, self-enclosed, the lack of depth of exchange and interaction. Families built by such couples are only stagnant even if they are rich again. A family is like an energy exchange station, between husband and wife, between parents and children due to energy