如果你控制住你自己的舌头,多说一些安慰人的话、激励人的话和鼓励人上进的话,自然就会受到欢迎了。我的儿子汤姆,虽然只有6岁,但小朋友们都说他是一个话多而又不中听的人。他总是想到什么就说什么,从来不考虑别人的感受,因而惹出许多麻烦。比如,有一天上写字课,汤姆写得很认真,每个字母都写得很工整。他握铅笔的姿势非常正确,把字母“L”写得横平竖直。可当他看到小伙伴玛丽用她的整个小手掌攥着铅笔时,他想也没想,张口就说,“玛丽握笔的姿势不正确!”结 If you control your own tongue, say more words of comfort, motivational words and encouragement, you are naturally welcome. My son Tom, though only 6 years old, but the children say he is a word more and less people listen. He always think of what to say, never consider the feelings of others, thus causing a lot of trouble. For example, one day writing lessons, Tom wrote very carefully, each letter is written very neat. He held the pencil in a very correct position, writing the letter “L” horizontally and vertically. But when he saw her little friend Mary with her whole little palm clutching a pencil, he thought for a moment, saying, “Mary’s pen is not in the right position!”