人们总是会说环境改变人,但在老朋友聚会的时候又总能听到这样的话:“你小子啊,还是那个德性。”你看,这就是矛盾的地方,究竟一个人会如何改变?一个人为什么会改变?答案也许不出两种:一种是客观的,一种是主观的。所谓客观的,就是事情来了,你不得不改变。而所谓主观的,就是事情本来可以不必这样,但是你自己选择改变。 People always say that the environment changes people, but when old friends get together they can always hear the following words: “Your boy, that virtue.” "Look, this is the place where conflicts will happen. How to change? Why does one change? The answer may not be two: one is objective, one is subjective. The so-called objective is that things come, you have to change. The so-called subjective is that things may not have been the case, but you choose to change.