实际中坚持对等,意味投桃报李式的平等——你给我什么,我也就回报什么。能这样做的人,能给人以机智灵巧庄重稳妥之感,他磊磊落落,既不会以势压人,也绝不会低声下气。那么,何谓对等,请看一个著名的事例。一次,歌德在魏玛公园的一条小路上散步,偏偏碰到了他的一 Adhere to the actual practice, which means the equality of reciprocity - what do you give me, I will return what. Able to do so, can give people a sense of intelligence and tactful solemn and trustful, he Lei Lei, neither under pressure, nor will be under breath. So, what is reciprocity? See a famous example. Once, Goethe walked in a path in Weimar Park, but met his one