有位家长十分苦恼地对我说:“唉,我的孩子不知写了多少份‘检讨书’,可毛病就是不改……”后来,我就去问她的孩子这是怎么回事,他很得意地一扬头,回答我说:“嗨,‘检讨书’,两分钟就能写好,就是‘我是不对的’,‘今后坚决改正’那一套,拉开妈妈的一个抽屉,都快装满了!”他停了一下,又解释道;“反正……反正都是他们(指家长)逼着我写的,不这么做,我就过不了‘关’。” 孩子有了毛病,家长先是雷霆暴雨般地“压”一顿, One of my parents told me very distressedly: “Oh, my child did not know how many copies of the review book were written, but the mistake was not to change ...” Later, I went to ask her child what’s going on , He proudly raised his head and replied to me: “Hi, ’The review book’ can be written in two minutes, that is, ’I am wrong,’ and ’resolutely correct it in future.’ A drawer, almost full! ”He paused for a moment and explained again;“ Anyway ... all of them are forcing me to write (referring to my parents), and if I do not do that, I can not go ’off’ . ”Children have problems, parents first thunderstorm“ pressure ”meal,