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人们看待同一事物或者处理同一问题,因采取的态度不同而会产生不大相同甚至截然相反的结果。比如:有一美女,这个人说她非常漂亮,而另一个人却强调她某一点不漂亮。显然,前者以包容的心态来欣赏这位美女,她身上的一小点缺陷被这种心态融化了;而后者恰恰相反,他以挑剔的眼光来审视这位美女,他盯住了她身上的某一点瑕渍,因而觉得美女还有不尽如人意的地方。 包容与挑剔,会让我们对世界产生两种不同的看法。如果我们以包容的态度看待世界(当然,这种包容
People look at the same thing or deal with the same problem, because of different attitudes will produce different or even the opposite result. For example: There is a beautiful woman, this person said she was very beautiful, but another person stressed that she is not beautiful at some point. Apparently, the former enjoyed the beauty in an inclusive manner, a slight defect in her was melted by this mentality; the latter, on the contrary, looked at the beauty with a critical eye and fixed his gaze on her A little blemish, so think beauty there are not satisfactory place. Inclusiveness and criticalness will give us two different views of the world. If we look at the world in an inclusive manner (of course, this tolerance