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戴维·伯姆对话理论的主要观点,对于促进青春期儿童亲子双方的家庭谈话有重要的启发意义。本文在概述戴维·伯姆对话理论的基础上,提出家庭中的日常谈话可以依据对话理论的基本原则来开展,从而使之成为“有限性对话”。青春期儿童具备参与有限性对话的能力,可以作为参与家庭对话的主体;在对话中,父母需要注意三个原则:悬置思维假定,促进成长需要的自由表达;运用对话策略,富于建设性地应对成长问题;体现关爱和支持,确保良好沟通。
The main point of view of the dialogue theory of David Boomer is of important enlightenment significance for promoting family talk between parents and children of adolescent children. Based on the overview of David Bohm’s dialogue theory, this article proposes that the daily conversation in the family can be carried out according to the basic principles of dialogue theory, so that it becomes the “limited dialogue”. Adolescent children have the ability to participate in limited dialogue and can participate as subjects in family dialogue. During the dialogue, parents should pay attention to three principles: suspending the assumption of thinking and promoting the need of growth; using the tactics of dialogue, constructively Respond to growth issues; embody care and support and ensure good communication.