骂小孩之前,是否可以把自己的坏脾气收敛,凭良心问问自己:是把对生活的不满趁机发泄在小孩身上,还是由衷希望孩子改进?我喜欢观察人。单身时喜欢观察情侣之间的亲昵;婚后喜欢观察父母和小孩之间的互动。我通过观察而学习,通过观察而检讨自己。有一次我去一家电脑专卖店,想要试用店里的样品电脑,可是样品电脑却被一位十来岁的小女孩占用。她玩得津津有味,一直不愿把平板电脑放下。她的妈妈不断地催促她离开,并对她承诺:“若你下次考一百分,我就买给你。”小女孩连头也不回,对着 Before scolding a child, can you put your own bad temper, conscientiously ask yourself: is the dissatisfaction of life took the opportunity to vent children, or sincerely hope that children improve? I like observers. Single like to observe the intimacy between couples; married like to observe the interaction between parents and children. I learn by observing and reviewing myself through observation. Once I went to a computer store, you want to try the store’s sample computer, but the sample computer was occupied by a teenager little girl. She has a relish, has been reluctant to put the tablet down. Her mother constantly urging her to leave and promised her: “If you next test a hundred percent, I will buy it for you. ” The little girl did not even back to the front