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身为母亲,你一定为地震中坚强的孩子们深深感动。感动之余,是否把目光转到了自家宝贝的身上?备受呵护的孩子,一旦遇到意外、挫折或是灾难时.将会是怎样的一种状况?坚强的意志是人类生存和成就一切事情的基础。怎样才能让孩子学会坚强?坚强不是想学就学得会的,而是在经历种种困难、危险、挫折、失败的过程中形成的。因此,父母早在婴幼儿阶段,就应该通过有意识地引导、教育和磨练,使孩子逐渐学会如何面对困难、面对危险,养成坚强的品质。坚强教育存在于生活的点点滴滴。简单地说,坚强教育就是:当孩子摔跤了,不要急于扶起他,当他自己设法站起来时,你再给予鼓励:当孩子受了委屈哭起来,不要急于去哄他,等他不哭了,你再去询问并帮助他;当孩子不会穿衣、心情烦躁时,不要急于帮助他,让他几经努力穿好后,再夸奖他……单纯的说教并不能使孩子变得坚强,父母若能调整心态,硬起心肠,在类似的细节教育和行为游戏上做足功课,就可以让孩子在生活中潜移默化地坚强起来!
As a mother, you are deeply moved by the strong children in the earthquake. Touched aside, whether the eyes turned to the body of their own babies? Care of children, in the event of an accident, setbacks or disasters when what will be a state? Strong will to human survival and achievements of all things Foundation. How can we let our children learn to be strong? Tough is not what you want to learn to learn, but in the process of experiencing all kinds of difficulties, dangers, frustrations and failures. Therefore, as early as infants and toddlers, parents should gradually learn how to face difficulties, face dangers and develop strong qualities through conscious guidance, education and discipline. Strong education exists in life bit by bit. Simply put, a strong education is: When a child wrestles, do not rush to raise him, when he tries to get up, you give encouragement again: When the child was hurt, crying, do not rush to coax him, so he does not cry , You go to ask and help him; when the child will not dress, mood irritability, do not rush to help him, let him try hard to wear, and then he praised him ... ... simple preaching can not make the child become strong, If parents can adjust their mindset, hard-hearted, in similar details of the education and behavior of the game to do enough homework, you can let children in life subtle and strong up!