我连续几年从事幼儿园大班的教育工作,对独生子女在幼儿园的表现进行了观察和总结,发现独生子女的家庭教育存在许多问题,家长往往“望子成龙”心切,施行“拔苗助长”之策,而对孩子良好行为习惯、思想品德的培养和身体健康却不重视,结果使孩子体智德美的发展失去平衡,影响孩子健康成长。一是强塞知识。对一个还是幼儿园的孩子,家长却迫不及待地灌输小学的知识,教孩子写字、计算。有的家长不懂基本的教学方法,不懂写字的笔顺规则,致使孩子握笔方法不对,书写姿势不正,笔划不顺。孩子成了习惯,极难纠正。有的家长教幼儿背乘法口 For several years I have been engaged in the education of kindergartens in large classes. I observed and summarized the performance of the only children in kindergartens. I found that there were many problems with the family education of only children. Parents often “look for success” and implement the strategy of " Good behavior habits of children, the cultivation of moral character and physical health are not valued, the result of the development of children’s moral Germany and the United States out of balance, affecting the healthy growth of children. First, strong knowledge. For a child who is still a kindergarten, parents can not wait to instill the knowledge of primary school and teach children to write and calculate. Some parents do not understand the basic teaching methods, do not understand the rules of writing stroke order, resulting in the child holding the pen wrong, writing posture is not correct, stroke is not smooth. Children become a habit, very difficult to correct. Some parents teach children to take advantage of the mouth