上期内容简介:在大学的咨询室里常常会遇到这样一些学生:在外人看来他们学习努力成绩优秀,但在其中有一部分学生的学习动机并非来源于自己,更多来源于自己的家庭、外界的眼光或者种种其他因素,就像是一根不断拉紧的橡皮筋,如果没有恰当地放松或调整,则很有可能出现问题。上期我们谈论到一位优秀的女生A,成绩优异能力突出,将自己的生活安排得十分忙碌,但总在一个人呆着的时候感觉情绪糟糕,从而导致情绪性暴食与催吐。 In the consulting room of the university, students often encounter such things as: outsiders think they have a good academic performance, but some of them are not motivated by their own learning, but more from their own families, The eyes of the outside world, or a host of other factors, act like a rubber band that is constantly taut and can cause problems if not properly relaxed or tweaked. In the previous issue we talked about a good girl, A, who excelled in her outstanding performance and arranged her own life very well, but always felt bad mood when she was alone, leading to emotional gluttony and vomiting.