一位志愿来中国做妇女工作的外国女性在工作了几个月后开始生病。她的主要症状是经常感到浑身不舒服,甚至全身乏力。医生用很多先进医学仪器也查不出她到底是什么毛病,一天,一个老友从她的家乡来,她们激动地紧紧拥抱在一起,互相拍打着对方的肩膀和后背。结果,这位女性的病竟然神奇地好了。她后来说:“那天晚上,我感到浑身非常轻松,心里很快乐。我忽然一下明白了,来中国这么久了,还从来没有拥抱过。就从那天起我开始疑惑,为什么中国人很少拥抱?他们是如何表达和分享感情的呢?” A foreign woman volunteering to work as a woman in China began to get sick after a few months of work. Her main symptoms are often uncomfortable and even generalized. The doctor used many advanced medical instruments to find out exactly what was wrong with her. One day an old friend came from her hometown, they hugged each other excitedly and flashed each other’s shoulders and backs. As a result, the woman’s disease is magically better. Later, she said: "I felt very relaxed and happy in my heart that night. Suddenly I understood that it was a long time since I came to China and never embraced it. Since then I have started to wonder why the Chinese rarely hugged How do they express and share their feelings?