在谈论班主任工作的时候,常常谈到严厉与严格的问题。严厉,表现在对学生的态度上:严格,表现在对学生的要求上。态度严厉,是对学生不耐烦的表现;要求严格,则是关心学生、爱护学生的反映。有些班主任常常集二者于一件事情、一个学生。他们在严格要求学生的时候,往往摆出一副严厉的面孔,甚至声色俱厉,以迫使学生严格要求自己。他们误认为,要严格,必须严厉;不严厉,便达不到对学生严格要求的目的。其实,严厉与严格是两个完全不相同的概念,严厉与严格混在一起,一定达不到严格要求的目的,倒会事与愿违,甚至适得其反。 When talking about the work of the class teacher, often talked about harsh and strict issues. Severe, manifested in the attitude of students: strict, expressed in the requirements of students. Harsh attitude is the impatience of students performance; demanding, it is concerned about the students, students love to reflect. Some class teachers often set the two in one thing, a student. When they are strict with their students, they often have a severe face and even a strong voice in order to force their students to exercise strict demands on themselves. They mistakenly believe that they must be strict and must be harsh; if they are not severe, they will fail to meet the strict demands of students. In fact, harsh and strict are two totally different concepts. Strict and strictly mixed together, they will certainly not meet the strict requirements. They will be counterproductive and even counterproductive.