人有多早懂事,就有多早感受母亲。 我最早对母亲的感受大概也就只有五六岁吧,那时候我常常问姥姥:“我妈妈是不是后妈呀?” 记忆中的母亲很少有笑脸,说话声音不大,语调也很平和,但是却有威严,凡是母亲说过的话,我们孩子是一定要照办的,没有商量的余地。我和哥哥都以为,大人和孩子的关系就是这样,张三李四家也一定是这样。突然有一天,我们家来了一对母女,是我母亲的远房表弟媳妇,她女儿和我差不多年纪,但是她不仅不听她妈妈的话,而且每天都粘在她妈妈身上,她母亲不是拉着她就是背着她。我和哥哥都傻了, How early man sensible, how early mother. My earliest feelings about the mother is also about only five or six years old, when I often asked her grandmother: “My mother is not a stepmother?” Memory of the mother there are few smiling faces, voice is not loud, the tone is also very peaceful, But there is dignity, all the mothers have said, our children must do the following, there is no room for negotiation. My brother and I both thought that the relationship between adults and children would be like this. Suddenly one day my family came to a mother and daughter, my mother’s distant cousin’s daughter-in-law, who was almost as old as I was, but she not only did not listen to her mother but stuck to her mother every day, and her mother was not Holding her is carrying her. My brother and I are silly,